Sexual Expectations Going into Marriage (fixed)

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* 1. What is your gender?

Female

Male

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* 2. How old are you??

Under 25

25-34

35-44

45-54

55 or older

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* 3. How long have you been married?

Engaged

Less than 3 years

3-9 years

10-14 years

15-19 years

20-24 years

25-29 years

30-34 years

35 or more years

Widowed

Divorced

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* 4. Would you say you are a Christian/Follower of Jesus?

Yes, but not in a big way.

Yes, moderately serious about it.

Yes, it's a very big deal to me.

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* 5. As you entered marriage, how did you feel about the following? (Answer N/A if it didn't occur to you or does not apply.)

	Agree A lot	Agree Some	Agree a Little	Neither Agree nor Disagree	Disagree a Little	Disagree Some	Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Agree Some	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the husband Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Agree Some	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of pleasure for the wife Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Agree Some	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of comfort for the husband Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Agree Some	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of comfort for the wife Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Agree Some	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of nurture for the husband Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Agree Some	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of nurture for the wife Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Agree Some	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of frustration for the husband Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Agree Some	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of frustration for the wife Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Agree Some	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the husband Disagree A lot
Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Agree A lot	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Agree Some	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Agree a Little	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Disagree a Little	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Disagree Some	Sex would be a source of fear or pain for the wife Disagree A lot
Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Agree A lot	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Agree Some	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Agree a Little	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Disagree a Little	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Disagree Some	Sex would make us feel closer and build our relationship Disagree A lot
Sex would become less important over the first year or two	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Agree A lot	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Agree Some	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Agree a Little	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Neither Agree nor Disagree	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Disagree a Little	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Disagree Some	Sex would become less important over the first year or two Disagree A lot
Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Agree A lot	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Agree Some	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Agree a Little	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Neither Agree nor Disagree	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Disagree a Little	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Disagree Some	Marriage would solve or reduce existing sexual problems Disagree A lot
Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Agree A lot	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Agree Some	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Agree a Little	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Neither Agree nor Disagree	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Disagree a Little	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Disagree Some	Marriage and regular sex would end my porn use Disagree A lot
My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Agree A lot	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Agree Some	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Agree a Little	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Neither Agree nor Disagree	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Disagree a Little	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Disagree Some	My spouse would fully satisfy me sexually Disagree A lot
I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Agree A lot	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Agree Some	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Agree a Little	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Neither Agree nor Disagree	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Disagree a Little	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Disagree Some	I would fully satisfy my spouse sexually Disagree A lot

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* 6. How often did you expect to have sex the first year of marriage?

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* 7. How often did you expect to have sex the tenth year of your marriage?

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* 8. How long did you expect the average sexual encounter to last from agreeing to have sex to both finished?

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* 9. How often did you expect the wife to orgasm?

More than once each time

Every time

Almost always - at least 95% of the time

75% - 95% of the time

50 to 75% of the time

25% to 50% of the time

Less than 25% of the time

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* 10. How much did each of the following influence your sexual expectations going into marriage?

	A great deal	A lot	Some	A little	Not at all
My Family	My Family A great deal	My Family A lot	My Family Some	My Family A little	My Family Not at all
My Friends	My Friends A great deal	My Friends A lot	My Friends Some	My Friends A little	My Friends Not at all
My Culture	My Culture A great deal	My Culture A lot	My Culture Some	My Culture A little	My Culture Not at all
The Church	The Church A great deal	The Church A lot	The Church Some	The Church A little	The Church Not at all
Media (TV, movies, magazines)	Media (TV, movies, magazines) A great deal	Media (TV, movies, magazines) A lot	Media (TV, movies, magazines) Some	Media (TV, movies, magazines) A little	Media (TV, movies, magazines) Not at all
Pornography	Pornography A great deal	Pornography A lot	Pornography Some	Pornography A little	Pornography Not at all
Romance Novels	Romance Novels A great deal	Romance Novels A lot	Romance Novels Some	Romance Novels A little	Romance Novels Not at all
Sex with individuals other than my future spouse	Sex with individuals other than my future spouse A great deal	Sex with individuals other than my future spouse A lot	Sex with individuals other than my future spouse Some	Sex with individuals other than my future spouse A little	Sex with individuals other than my future spouse Not at all
Sex with my future spouse	Sex with my future spouse A great deal	Sex with my future spouse A lot	Sex with my future spouse Some	Sex with my future spouse A little	Sex with my future spouse Not at all

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* 1. What is your gender?

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* 2. How old are you??

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* 3. How long have you been married?

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* 4. Would you say you are a Christian/Follower of Jesus?

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* 5. As you entered marriage, how did you feel about the following? (Answer N/A if it didn't occur to you or does not apply.)

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* 6. How often did you expect to have sex the first year of marriage?

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* 7. How often did you expect to have sex the tenth year of your marriage?

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* 8. How long did you expect the average sexual encounter to last from agreeing to have sex to both finished?

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* 9. How often did you expect the wife to orgasm?

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* 10. How much did each of the following influence your sexual expectations going into marriage?

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* 11. Optional Comments